This question arises no less as boy’s and girl’s approach their adolescence, a step that they might not be prepared in their life; at the same time, this question remains obscure in the older generation, Christians who have been walking with the Lord for quite a wile now. However, some Christians interpret God’s will by their dreams, thinking that God communicates signs. I don't know what technics are being used to interpret these dream, but some how they get a sense of understanding in what God wants to communicate. Others wait for super natural activity in order to understand the will of God; eventually from the side, it just looks like these people are waiting for a voice from heaven in order to clarifying, or more accurately , confirming what they already decided in their mind. Don't get me wrong, as Christians, it is normal to seek the will of God; it is actually one of the things Christians are instructed to do when they have a need, letting God know everything